Tuesday, December 20, 2011

I need psychological help?

Danny, I was truly touched by your story. Although I may not be able to fully help your situation, I truly want to try. I really admire your morals, like saving yourself for marriage, and I feel much sympathy for you relationship with your parents. One thing you could try is to really think about your friends. Think about what they do for you, what you do for them, how you depend on them, what you would do without them, etc. If you take a step back and think about your life with perspective, you might be surprised at how many people love you. Love isn't always shown in hugging, kissing, and physical affection (though those are very helpful in establishing a relationship) but in the things you do for one another. Some parents aren't as visible in this affection. It's not even uncommon for a parent to not feel love for their child. But I do believe you WILL find someone eventually, but I don't think this needs to be an immediate change. Take baby steps, don't listen to your friends in this department. Do you go to a church? If you do, get involved in a small group if its available. If it's not, find a church that does have small groups. I'm in one myself, and you would not believe the love you receive from you fellow mates and God. You might even find a girl. Also, seeing a counseling psychologist would be appropriate in your situation. (That's what I plan on majoring in.) I'm very sorry I couldn't be of more help. You will be in my prayers.

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